One of the greatest benefits of using eHarmony is the expert guidance that underlies everything we do. Founded by Dr. Neil Clark Warren, renowned psychologist and relationship expert, eHarmony was designed to bring his more than 35 years of research to support you at every turn of the relationship building process.
Guided Communication
As an option you can follow our Guided Communication process that will:
- Help You Break The Ice With Your Matches
The first communication is always the hardest. So at eHarmony we help you get started. Our Guided Communication option allows you to choose 5 multiple-choice questions that will help you build a rapport and break the ice. Combine broad based compatibility with our Ice Breaker questions and you'll find that you have a lot to talk about with your matches.
- Know What's Important
Understanding yourself and your needs is an important key to building a strong relationship. And part of that is knowing what you need in a partner. We'll help you make your shopping list of "must haves" and "can't stands". Is it really important to you that your partner save money wisely? Or that he spend money to enjoy life? We'll prompt you to ask some important questions, and share those with your match to see if your lists line up.
- Be Real with Each Other
The deep questions are hard to ask, but they're the most important. And you'll be glad you found out up-front, before you're emotionally invested. The eHarmony process helps you write and exchange questions that explore issues people often overlook until it's too late.
Safe, Open Communication
When you complete the Guided Communication steps you'll move into Open Communication with your matches, emailing each other through eHarmony's safe, anonymous message system until you're ready to share your personal information. Or, if Guided Communication is not of interest, you can choose our Fast Track option and move directly to Open Communication with a match.

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"We can bring a whole new level of certainty to the most important choice involved in the building of our family life." Dr. Neil Clark Warren.
Since earning his doctorate at The University of Chicago, Dr. Warren has become one of America's best-known experts on mate selection and developing healthy relationships. This desire to use his experience and knowledge to help singles find someone truly compatible led Dr. Warren to build eHarmony.com.
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