Posts by Melanie Schilling

eHarmony’s Relationship and Dating Expert, Melanie Schilling, is a registered Australian psychologist and dating coach. Melanie draws on her psychological expertise and extensive counseling experience to write about all areas of the relationship and dating sphere in her fortnightly series. Having met her fiancé on eHarmony in 2013, Melanie has experienced the online dating journey first hand and is passionate about helping singles on their dating journey. Drop her a line on our ‘Ask Mel’ page and your question might be featured in her next post!

3 signs you’re NOT ready to date

Are you really date-ready? eHarmony’s Dating & Relationship expert shares three signs you aren’t.

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Start with you

Your dates are Googling you

Here’s how to deal with it and manage your online brand.

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Dating, Love & Dating

Springtime 21 day challenge

Spring clean your dating mindset with this simple 21 day challenge.

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Dating, Love & Dating

Chivalry is dead … isn’t it?

The rules of dating have changed and it’s not fair. Especially for men.

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Dating

STOP playing the numbers game of dating

Dating shouldn’t feel like a numbers game. eHarmony’s Dating & Relationship expert Melanie Schilling explains what you can do about it.

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Dating

Ladies, it’s time to step into your Dating Spotlight

1902       Australian Women receive right to vote 1961        Australian Women gain access to The Pill 1963       Australian Women allowed in pubs 1972        Equal Pay case 2009      First female Australian Prime Minister Aussie women have come a long way. We have worked hard to free ourselves from the […]

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Dating

Most Aussies are romantically lazy, are you?

eHarmony has conducted another round of ground-breaking research into the life and love of Australian singles. This time, the results are, let’s say … a little confronting.

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Dating

See it now: visualise your future

In part three of a special blog series by our very own Dating and Relationship Expert, Melanie Schilling, Mel shows you how visualisation can transform your dating life. This week Mel is sharing some of her best dating tips and tools, and inviting you to join her on the 30 Day Dating Challenge.

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Dating

Break those deal breakers

This is part two of a special series brought to you by our very own Dating and Relationship Expert, Melanie Schilling. This week Mel is sharing some of her best dating tips and tools, and inviting you to join her on the 30 Day Dating Challenge.

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Dating
commitment issues

Does your partner have commitment issues?

Worried your date has a genuine fear of commitment? eHarmony Dating and Relationship expert Melanie Schilling explains the causes and how to handle someone with commitment phobia.

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Dating, Relationships