How to be committed to love & dating


The dating scene is ever so changing with so many options of dating platforms to choose from. Where do we start? Online dating? Mobile apps? Speed dating? Match making? The possibility of meeting someone is endless that it is just easier to stay at home alone! Watching our favourite movie in our PJs whilst eating pizza and sipping on a glass of red. No human interaction there. Want to give love a go?

Here are 3 loved-up reasons to be committed:

  1. Love is possible

What does love look like to you? Create a vision board of your soul mate and put up things that you would both do together. Place the vision board where you can see it XX number of times a day whether it’s the fridge or your bedroom wall. Being consistent in seeing our dreams of love, we are slowly programming our mind that love is possible. As Allan Pease explains that the RAS (Reticular Activating System) wires our programming of beliefs and so as humans we are driven by visual results. It’s like going on Instagram and you see Kayla Itsines posting before and after body images of her clients who have lost weight, with toned, tanned bodies. It makes you want to buy her weight loss program to do something about your unhappiness with your body. The vision board is used as the same tool to realising love.

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  1. Tap into the power of love

The vision board is what we create on a physical level. To tap into the power of love, we must feel it on a spiritual level. Being visual creatures, meditation is a powerful tool to visualize and a great way to feel what love is for us. Spiritual leaders such as Marianne Williamson, Oprah Winfrey and Gabrielle Bernstein share their message that to attract love and abundance, we must be the energy of love. Give meditation a go, sit cross legged on the floor and close your eyes. Imagine opening a golden door then taking a carpet ride to your soulmate. What does he/she look like? How does it feel to be with that person? What beautiful words would they say to you? What would you do together? As you are visualizing this, take a moment to feel the energy of love. Is it peaceful? Inspirational? Warm? Then take a carpet ride back to where you first started, that golden door. Open your eyes, does love feel real to you? This form of meditation is a way to train the RAS that love is possible to achieve.

  1. Happiness looks gorgeous on you

Do you remember the feeling of love? It feels good right? If not, check out the success stories on eharmony and see the energy that lights up the couples. See how happy they are to finally be in love. Think of this and evoke the feeling of love into your life daily. Love is there to bring you happiness, use it to make you happy whether you are single, dating or in a relationship. Have you noticed that people are far more attractive when they smile and laugh? The energy is through love. Wear it more often and use it to attract loving people into your life and most importantly in the relationship with yourself. Find ways to break into a smile such as saying something hilarious to yourself, appreciate the sunset or look into the mirror and smile!

“Commitment is an act, not a word,” by Jean-Paul Satre. Be committed to love. It is your key to happiness.

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About the author 

Jessica Goh is not your ordinary life coach, she specializes in self-confidence and reconnecting with your highest self. She has helped men and women who suffer from depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, low self-esteem and mid-life crisis experiences. Her work has resulted in clients re-connecting a loving relationship with their parents, discovering their self-worth and happiness, letting go of past pains and reigniting to a life of appreciation and love, switching careers and increase of money flow in their career. Her purpose for coaching is to educate and empower everyday Australians to live a life that they love. Jessica believes that life brings us challenges so we can become our authentic self. Discover your self-confidence at

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