How do I know the last time my eharmony match was online?

When logged into your account, you can easily see when your matches were last online, right below their photo. To give you the best chance at finding your next great relationship, if a member hasn’t logged on in over two months, we exclude them from your Matches list. No one wants to get ghosted before you even start.

Additionally, The Online Right Now feature lets you see which of your matches have been the most active on eharmony lately and most likely to respond to your messages. You’ll be able to tell if your match is online right now by the little green dot next to their picture.